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Dear Friend,
When we talk about violent extremism, we tend to focus on numbers. Numbers demonstrate the magnitude and breadth of the problem we face when it comes to combating violent extremism in this country. Numbers help us keep our finger on the pulse of violent extremism, and the pulse is strong. Focusing on numbers can make it easy to get lost in the overwhelm of the problem’s magnitude.
Equally important are the individual stories of those who have successfully disengaged from violent extremist movements. Hearing the personal experiences of what it was like to be in and leave extremist groups reminds us that violent extremism isn’t the unnamed virus infecting our society–it’s your sibling, parent, child, family friend, former classmate, or neighbor who needs help reconnecting with humanity.
“Helping people leave extremist groups isn’t only helping them leave. It’s restoring them to their families. It’s removing them from a very toxic environment. It’s preventing real harm to society and themselves. It’s giving them a chance to sort mental issues and in a lot of cases face abuse they have suffered. It’s a chance to face drug and alcohol problems. It’s a chance to see the most hated figures turn into the most gentle loving people. It’s making society a hell of a lot safer.”
When we acknowledge the humanity behind violent extremism, we can better meet the challenge of helping individuals out with compassion and accountability. Sharing the stories of those who have left violent extremism behind demonstrates the most important thing about preventing violence committed in the name of ideological or religious beliefs: It’s never too late to change your mind. Listening to stories of redemption helps us better believe that redemption is possible, show compassion, and give grace. There is life after hate for those willing to take accountability. And there is a magnitude in each break with extremism–each person who leaves makes society safer and demonstrates to others that they can follow the same path.
“I am a former skinhead. I was in the movement from 1989 until 2010. I know it’s scary. The change is scary. You don’t know what is on the other side, but I promise you…with 21 years in the movement…it is better over here. Take the leap. Life After Hate will help you.”
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Lives After Hate
The stories of those who’ve left extremism aren’t just testimonials—they’re proof it’s never too late to change.
Read more here.
Ask A Former
In the second episode, the formers answer your questions. “What kept you in the movement?” “How has your story evolved over time?”
Listen to the episode here.
The Daily Former: Ernest
Ernest has never told his story–until now. In the White Power movement from the late 90’s through early 2000’s, he is still thinking about what he can do to make up for it.
Listen to the full episode here.
With Friends Like These
Re-acclimating to the normal world can feel impossible for Formers. Jamie shares insight into some challenges.
Read more here.
